sorry, didn't mean to sound like I was knocking the train. It's actually the opposite and that it sounds very appealing. It was just to get more of a feel of how well European train travel works, as a Southern user I tend to expect the worst but you have allayed my concerns.
Sitting back with a good book and a nice view Vs minimum 2hr check-in (more if they go nuts with the security checks again) squeezed (yes even at a statuesque 5'6" I feel penned in) on a budget airline doesn't seem like much of a fair contest.
And that's without considering the safety of my stead.