by Toks » Wed May 11, 2011 8:20 am
[quote="Bo-Gilly"][quote]I didn't know any WW1 veterans neither, but you know I still paid my respects as opposed to any displays of mourning.
That was an unfortunate comparison.
Whilst someone dying as the result of a cycling accident might well be very tragic, it isn't quite in the same league, imho.
It's probably not a bad idea to try and keep some perspective ............ and maybe not
belittle the scarifies made by veterans ?
I personally, have never worn a black armband to morn anyone's death, so for me, the issue doesn't arise. Although I would consider it if armband wearing was my style.
I don't think there's any 'might very well be tragic...' If someone dies in such circumstances its clearly sad, distressing etc to the persons friends or loved ones. Should we now put a grief rating scale on someones death? Surely any death thats completely unexpected has to be tragic. Which one is worse a soldier dying on the battlefield or a child thats killed in a coach crash. Hopefully none of us will ever find out but I'd hate for somone to tell me which one I should be most mournful about. As other have said do whatever you feel you need to do but lets show some sensitivity, at least in respect to his family and friends afterall this bloke was in the prime of his life was killed simply riding his bike.